Ralph P. Nussbaum, Cantor

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Our dear Cantor Nussbaum has retired as of December 31, 2016. The past quarter century under Cantor Nussbaum represents a time of special friendship and spirituality with our congregation, its leadership, teachers and faculty, and the many students he has touched throughout the years. The East Northport Jewish Center wishes him, Avrille and their family all the best– a long and joyous retirement. We are profoundly grateful for the priviledge to have been enriched by his presence among us. 

Ian Silverman, Rabbi

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In our contemporary American milieu, we begin January as a new chapter, with a batch of resolutions for the New Year. Similarly, with the departure of our beloved Chazzan, we at ENJC are also beginning a new chapter. And, according to Jewish tradition, every day is an opportunity for a new chapter, a potential for teshuva–a return to the correct path and to good living. Even God starts a new chapter each day, as the siddur claims, Hamechadesh bechol Yom Maaseah beresheet–we are awestruck at our God who each day 'creates the world anew.' With this in mind, there are four resolutions we can adopt into our Jewish lives, based on major themes in the portions we read in each of our January Shabbats. Perhaps you will embrace all or some of these opportunities.


In Miketz, which we read on December 30th, Joseph is appointed vizier of Egypt and devises a way to save the Near East from drought and hunger. Through his foresight and vision, suffering is alleviated and lives are saved. Let’s resolve, this new year, to make certain to redouble our efforts in supporting major organizations like Mazon, and make a personal effort to combat hunger by working with HIHI and with Long Island Harvest soup kitchens and food pantries, so as to minimize hunger for those who live locally.


In Vayigash, read on January 7, Joseph recognizes the repentance and improvement in his brothers, and reveals that he is their long-lost brother and that they must stop beating themselves up for past wrongdoings against him. Similarly, in our lives, we may have run-ins and moments of disagreement that turn ugly. This year, can't we perhaps turn to a loved one and forgive? Can't we gain a new perspective and maturity for a feud for which we may not even remember its' origin? Years may go by and affection may grow colder. Instead, love and let live. Forgive and forget. Reveal your real face to family and friends–a face that seeks to embrace rather than to estrange.


In Vayechi, which we read on January 14, we see an acme of pure love in the behavior of one of Jacob's grandsons, Menasseh, when he receives a lesser blessing from his grandfather than his younger brother, Ephraim. Jacob crosses his arms and knowingly puts his right hand on the head of Ephraim, even though he is the younger, saying that the younger brother will be greater than the elder Menasseh. In fact, the entire book of Genesis is about the jealousy of brothers: Cain and Abel, Ishmael and Isaac, Jacob and Esau Joseph and his brothers.  But Menasseh isn't jealous. He is happy for his brother. That is why, on Friday night, we bless our sons to be like Menasseh and Ephraim. These brothers broke the cycle of envy. May we resolve this year to break our cycle of envy, and when we catch ourselves coveting the blessings of others, let's make sure to count the many that we have.


On January 21, we read from the portion of Shemoth. We are introduced to Moses, who runs away from Egypt as a fugitive, and assumes the role of a shepherd. Moses needs to be convinced that he can be so much more. Yet he resists his calling and his talents, not believing in himself. God puts a staff in his hand and says, "Just do it." Moses finds his stride, and boy does he. This might be a lesson for all of us who are perfectionists or are too hard on ourselves. This year don't talk yourself out of trying for a new level of achievement, a new skill, or a new hobby. Don't settle for the familiar. Bring it on. You may fail but you have to believe in yourself and make that effort. You, like Moses, might surprise yourself with your talents if you do!

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Ralph P. Nussbaum, Cantor

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Shalom to all:

The Evening of Tribute (Friday, November 18) for Avrille and I was one of the most moving, fraylach, exciting and memoriable evenings that we will always remember with love and appreciation! I am literally unable to find the appropriate words to describe our feelings at this time.

When asked by the committee chairmen, Evan Axelrod and Jeff Glatzer, when the tribute should take place, we immediately responded, "Friday evening," as to us, Shabbat is more than special. Who would have thought that we would have had 450 members of our amazing congregation present for a delicious Shabbat dinner! Adults, young parents, young adults, teens and children. To coin a phrase, we were totally “blown away” by the boisterous crowd. Further, I am absolutely certain that I will never have such a beautiful Shabbat dinner with such a large crowd, and that we elevated this holy day, whereby we were all closer to God. This is called a Kiddush Hashem, and we are so proud of this fact.

We then moved into the sanctuary and more people arrived for services and the official tribute. I want to personally thank our amazing choir for their beautiful songs, with some of the lyrics orchestrated by Mel and Ruth Noble and, of course, Terry Bernstein. Todah to the children of our Religious School for their amazing musical presentation, arranged by Morah Julia, with appreciatin to Bobbi Weinstein, our dedicated Education VP for her time spent with rehearsals. Appreciatin to all of those individuals who presented beautiful and meaningful speeches and to our President, Eric Loring, who sang a beautiful song, which he himself composed. A very special thank you to two of our senior Hay class students, Jack Wynn and Matthew Schwartz, who spoke so magnificently on behalf of all the students in our Religious School! I was emotionally so overwhelmed by their beautiful and sincere words.

I absolutely want to recognize some very special people who worked tirelessly to guarantee the success of this amazing evening: Evan Alexander and Jeff Glatzer, the co-chairmen of the the event, who spent so much time coordinating every detail relating to this special evening, Peggy Axelrod, Terry Bernstein, Alexandra Fingerman, Terry Glatzer, Scott Keiser, Mel and Ruth Noble, Lynne and Mark Slovin, Bobbi Weinstein, Peter Wisotsky, and so many more– Yishar Kochachem to all! I apologize if I missed anybody. 

An evening that we, the Nussbaum family, will never forget. Professionally, the evening was the highlight of my life. Thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you–

 

    

Ian Silverman, Rabbi

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 The Dreidel and Chanukah

According to Rabbi David Golinkin, the dreidel, or sevivon, is the most strongly linked symbol, next to the Chanukah lamp, for Jews at Chanukah. Apparently the dreidel is not an indigenous custom, but one that is modeled after other cultures. In 16th century England, Ireland and in central Europe, there were games called Totem, which also had spinning tops with gambling directions. T is Take All, H is Half, P is Put Down, and N is Nothing. How very ironic that a holiday with a message to hold tenaciously to one's laws and customs has as one of its main symbols one derived through imitation!

But this does not stop our rabbis from attributing other meanings to dreidels, after the fact. Some claim that the letters nun, gimmel, hey and shin stem from the miracle of Chanukah shortly after declaring Nes gadol Haya poh, or in the diaspora, Nes gadol Haya Sham–A great miracle happened here/there. The game of dreidel, it is claimed, was begun for the purpose of concealing Torah study, which Antiochus prohibited, and that the letters equal the numeric equivalent of 358, which is also the value of the word meshiah. Chanukah begins a time of messianic redemption. 

Finally, some claim the letters represent the kingdoms that Jews have “spun circles around” and vanquished. Nun, gimmel, hey and shin remind us N, Nebuchadnetzar=Babylon; H, Haman=Persia=Madai; G, Gog=Greece; and S, Seir=Rome.

But the following is the take-away that I like best. The dreidel is a representation of what we mean by the middle Chanukah candle-lighting blessing. Praise and bless God, who has given us miracles in those days and in this time. “This time” refers not to our era, but rather “human time” real time. the whole story of Chanukah is that the miracle is driven from below by the Maccabees in real time. The centripedal force of the spin is driven not by the little handle above, but rather the body below. Similarly, it was the assumption of actions below that drove the victory and the success over the Greeks. The weighty actions and decisions we make in our life, in our time, are what allows miracles to happen. “Actions below lead to stirring above,” say our sages. That is what the letters of the body of the dreidel are telling us.

May all of us enjoy Chanukah and our dreidels. And may they inspire us to weighty actions and decisions that drive our reality. And let us say, Amen.

Eric Loring, ENJC President

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In November, we had the opportunity as a congregation to say good-bye to our Cantor. In December, many of us will have opportunities to say personal good-byes to a dear friend. Cantor Nussbaum has been a constant presence in our synagogue life. It will be very strange to not see him on the bimah or in the Religious School. I will miss his melodic baritone, "What's going oonnnn?" I will miss his enthusiastic "guess"-timates of attendance at various functions. I will miss the way in which he has always made my family feel welcome and loved in our shul.

If you have not already, I hope that you will have opportunities to wish Ralph well as he and his family embark on this new stage in their lives. Shake his hand. Share a memory. Give him a hug if that feels appropriate. (Just try not to make him cry. He hates that!)

Now, as a community, we must look to the future. We are at once both diminished by our loss and stronger for having had the Nussbaums in our midst. As we adjust to their absence, we will gradually develop a new sense of balance and normalcy. 

Shalom, chaverim! See you in shul!

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